First off, thank you Kathy Morrison for the honor and privilege for writing such an article. I was a little intimidated at the prospect. I mean a whole team reading something I wrote; what might they think? How long might they stay awake? Eric, shut up and type…..(one of the conversations in my head).
I have always known what a triathlon was, but didn’t get serious until I met my wife Pamela and listened to her stories of her triathlon journey to Ironman Canada 2012. It seemed confusing at first, a sport where Swim, Bike, Run meant Fun, Fun, Fun; and at the same time also epitomized a famous Josh Adams quote of “Make friends with suffering because you’ll be spending a lot of time together.”
Now having been a triathlete for two years I understand the connection and have never had so much fun in the required training, and the actual events. I have only done 9 events in the past two years, but all that has done is to make me hungry for more, turning 9 into 90 and keep climbing from there.
Of the questions Kathy posed, about greatest accomplishment, most challenging thing, scariest thing, and the last of am I glad I did it? The answer to the last question is of course I’m glad I did it, yet the answer to the first is “getting over myself.” Wait, is he gonna say he thinks he’s all that and a bag of chips? Nope, its realizing I’m worth it. I’ve been a cop for over 25 years where I like running (when I can’t ride of course) towards shootings, and fires, and bad car crashes because that’s where people need help. In contrast, in my previous marriage, I was in an emotionally abusive relationship where I was made to feel worthless and was always wrong. I finally said “No I’m not” and ended it. I was not broken. It was a place I had got stuck in, and was leaving, but it was not me. I was 80 pounds heavier and my overall health was a wreck. That began my journey to health, healing, and independence, and after walking that blessed road I met Pamela.
Einstein stated, “Adversity introduces us to ourselves.” A perfect statement of triathlon. It doesn’t matter where you start, just that you do and keep going. Every experience holds a lesson. If you start an event but don’t finish it, no matter, you have learned something invaluable about YOU. So now apply that forward and keep going. My one goal in training and competing is to be a better version of myself. Like starting with one of these signs and working your way from right to left. The fun is the constant striving, the reward of beating a previous version of YOU. Let alone the company of a truly fantastic team like RTB.
Working on a better version of me alone is fun, but add a large exponent to that (doing some math here) and you get the experience of being with a club like RTB. So many wonderful people that are on their own journey, and yet we’re all going in the same general direction. A club with age-group-a-saurus-rex people like me and super smart, super-fast, super personable members as well.
People who inspire me to get faster, and not to try and beat them (haha yeah right) but, rather to be faster to be able to keep up. It’s hard to enjoy their awesome company when they are fading away in the distance. So I plan to keep moving forward, now into the off season with eager eyes on 2017, and the promise of more trial and growth, and the camaraderie of exceptional people.